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The Silent Killer of Your Faith
What's up, fellas!
I noticed it on a regular Tuesday morning.
I was going through my normal routine - quick prayer, skim a Bible verse, check my phone.
Nothing felt wrong exactly, but nothing felt "right" either.
That's when it hit me -> I had fallen into spiritual autopilot...and I knew it.
You know the feeling most likely, too.
You're doing all the "right things," but your heart isn't in it. Your prayers feel mechanical. Reading the Bible feels like a chore. Even worship at church becomes just another item on your Sunday checklist.
This is spiritual apathy 101 - and it's destroying Christian men from the inside out.
This was me before I started Get In The Fight.
Why This Matters
Here's the hard truth: Satan doesn't need you to fail spectacularly. He just needs you to drift slowly.
Think about it:
- Your kids are watching how you live out your faith (or not!)
- Your wife needs you to lead her spiritually
- Your own relationship with God hangs in the balance
This is why our daily Fight Club Prayer is so key 👇🏻
"Be on alert; stand firm in the faith; act like men; be strong. Do everything in love." (1 Cor. 16:13-14)
God didn't call us to "comfortable Christianity". He called us to do hard things - leading our families, loving our wives, and living with purpose - living on purpose!
3 Steps to Break Free From Apathy
- Win the First Fight of the Day
Set your alarm 10 minutes earlier (I promise you won't die!)
- Before touching your phone, read one chapter of Proverbs (match the day's date)
- Write down ONE thing you're thankful for
Starting your day by choosing God builds spiritual momentum ✝️
2. Do One Big Thing Each Day
Identify ONE area where you've been playing it safe with God
Maybe it's:
- That apology you need to make
- The sin you need to confess
- The thing you know God's calling you to do but you're avoiding
Do that ONE hard thing TODAY.
Obedience builds spiritual muscle 💪🏻
3. Join the Fight with Other Men
Find a men's group THIS WEEK (at your church, our free Fight Club, or start one yourself)
- Share your struggle with ONE trusted brother then set up a weekly check-in with him
Isolation is where men fall - don't go this life alone! 👊🏻
Your Next Move
Ask yourself: Where has apathy crept into your spiritual life?
Then take action: Choose ONE of the steps above and do it today. Not tomorrow. Today.
Share your commitment with me: [email protected] - or someone you know who will check in on you and be there for you.
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