Better Husbands
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Question of the Week:
"How can I love my wife like Christ loves the Church??"
3 Actions or Ideas
1. Be Sacrificial in Small Ways
Loving like Christ means putting her needs above your own, even in the little things. Whether it’s helping with the dishes, giving her your full attention after a long day, or praying over her, these small sacrifices (especially when you don't always feel like it) reflect Christ’s love in big ways.
2. Listen More Than You Speak
True love listens. Ask her how she’s doing—emotionally, spiritually, and mentally (asking one at a time - not all of those in one sentence). Then, simply listen. Don’t try to fix everything or jump in with advice. Show her that she matters to you. Then, ask if she'd like any help or advice or if she'd just prefer to have you listen and go from there.
3. Pray for Her (and With Her)
Make it a habit to pray daily for your wife. Ask God to bless her, strengthen her, and guide her. Better yet, invite her to pray together with you, even if it feels awkward at first (it will!). It’s one of the most intimate and powerful things you can do as her husband and demonstrates how to love her like Jesus as much or more than anything else you can do!
I’m curious...
What’s one thing you can do this week to show your wife Christ-like love?
Email me at [email protected] or share your answer in the Fight Club app!
Why This Matters
Ephesians 5:25 tells us men: “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the Church and gave Himself up for her.”
This isn’t just a "good idea"—it’s the calling of every Christian husband. When you love your wife sacrificially and selflessly, you’re not only obeying God but also modeling Christ’s love to her and everyone who witnesses it.
This fight isn’t easy! But we know it's worth it. You’ll have to overcome selfishness, pride, and especially complacency the longer you've been married. But the reward is a marriage built on honor, discipline, strength, and joy—a marriage that glorifies God.
Take this week to love her well
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