Break Bad Habits
Build Better Ones
Become Better Men
- Nate Whitson -
Dad's: this might freak you out - but it's important that you hear this:
Your kids are interested in sex!
I know - it's terrifying to think about it.
I couldn't believe it when I found out, too.
But then I remembered that I was a teenager not too long ago (just a few DECADES - but who's counting!), and that I also was fairly interested, too.
Now, here's the REALLY scary part that I want to confront you with.
You need to talk to your teenagers and pre-teens about sex!
If you just threw up a little bit in your mouth, I get it. It's a shock to the system.
I mean, our kids are just babies....right??
How in the world could these innocent, sweet, naive little creatures possibly be curious or interested so early in life?!
Yet, they are and we know what we're up against.
The world loves to talk to your kids about sex.
It's in the music they listen to.
The movies they watch.
The reels and videos they see every day on their social media apps.
It's in many of the conversations they have with peers.
Heck, it's even on every other commercial they see on tv!
Everywhere we go, we are being bombarded with SEX.
But in most families that I talk with, it's not hardly talked about at all.
This, my friend, needs to change.
As men who want to be better fathers, this HAS to change!
Think about what the alternative is if you don't.
That's why I wrote a book called "Let's Talk About SEX! What Christian teenagers wish they knew - but don't know how to ask you".
In it, I give 20 different questions about sex, dating, etc that teenagers want and need to know - but from a biblical perspective.
It's written to help parents and grandparents learn to take on these critical conversations and know how to answer some of these questions with grace, love, and confidence.
Here's the unexpected and beautiful thing about this:
If you can have conversations with your kids about sex - you can have conversations about ANYTHING else! No topic will seem difficult to have once you find out how to discuss this with them in an open and honest way.
I know it is scary to do to this but I'm begging you to lead them through this.
This isn't for the school, or the church, or their friends, or even just your wife to do this. This is your job, dad!
You can do this and you NEED to do this.
Don't let the world be the only one who's willing to speak to your kids about sex.
Nate
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P.S.
How do you feel about talking about sex openly and honestly with your kids or grandkids?
Most men shrink back from doing it and say very little besides "don't do it!".
This book can help make that easier and give you the tools you need to open the door to these critical conversations.
Check it out (you can learn more about it here) and see if this helps. Your kids need you to lead them. Don't let them down because of your own fears and discomfort.
