Get In The Fight Newsletter

Break Bad Habits

Ever thought that?

I know I certainly have!

I heard someone say that the other day, and it got me thinking.

What are some things I wish I knew earlier in my adult life that I'm just now learning?

Here's a few of them for you.

That porn was killing me even though I thought it wasn't. (And I wish I knew how to quit porn sooner.)
That being a godly man isn’t about being "nice"—it’s about being loving, honorable, disciplined, and strong like Jesus.
That the time I gave my kids mattered more than the money I made for them, and that my time with them would be gone so much faster than I I could believe.
That leading my wife spiritually was my role and part of my job description as her husband.
That saying ‘yes’ to everything was really just saying ‘no’ to what mattered most.
That real strength looks like repentance and vulnerability, not pretending like everything's always good.
That numbing my stress with screens and scrolling wasn’t restful and didn't provide peace. It was an escape from pain but it didn't alleviate or solve any real issues.
That my identity isn’t in my job, my performance, or what others think about me. I am who God says I am.
That having a thriving sex life and stronger marriage was possible if we simply learned to talk and communicate about it openly and honestly.
That I didn’t have to be perfect to be used by God—I just had to be willing and make myself available.
That having godly brothers in my life who knew me deeply and held me accountable for my actions was the key to life.

The bad news: you can't change your past.

The good news: you can change your future!

Make adjustments today and do the work necessary to keep you from looking back and saying, "I wish I would've....".

Nate

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P.S.

I'd love to hear or see your list.

Please hit "reply" and share some of them with me.