5 Habits That Destroy Dads
5 Habits That Destroy Dads
Like an old guitar that looks fine but sounds “off,” most dads don’t fail because of one big mistake — but because of small habits that go unnoticed.
Today’s episode covers five habits that quietly throw your fatherhood out of tune and how simple adjustments can make a major impact.
1. Present but Not Engaged
Being in the room isn’t the same as being emotionally present. Fix it: Put the phone away, ask real questions, create weekly one-on-one moments.
2. Letting Anger Lead
Harshness wounds deeper than you think and makes kids feel unsafe. Fix it: Pause before speaking, walk away if needed, repair quickly.
3. Inconsistent Boundaries
Kids need predictable love and predictable discipline. Fix it: Set clear rules, follow through calmly, communicate expectations upfront.
4. Modeling the Wrong Behaviors
Your example shapes your kids far more than your words. Fix it: Identify what you’re modeling, practice what you want them to imitate, drop excuses.
5. Avoiding Vulnerability
Kids don’t need a perfect dad — they need an honest one. Fix it: Admit when you’re wrong, share struggles appropriately, normalize repentance.
Tightening these five “out-of-tune strings” can transform your fatherhood. Commit your parenting to the Lord, ask for His help, and fight to be the dad your kids need.
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